Safety centre

Everyone is verified

Every member confirms they're 18 or over with photo ID and a live selfie before they can see member areas. Couples can verify both partners. We never see or keep your ID document — our verification provider tells us only whether you passed.

Meeting safely

• Chat on the site first and get a feel for people
• Meet somewhere public for the first time — a bar or a social
• Tell a friend where you're going and when you'll check in
• Agree boundaries before you meet, and stick to them
• Consent can be withdrawn at any time, by anyone — "no" ends things, no discussion
• Never send money, gift cards or bank details to anyone you meet here

Your controls

• Photos are blurred until you tap them (you can switch this off)
• Private albums are only shown to people you approve, and you can remove access any time
• Hide from search, hide your online status, or only accept messages from friends
• Block anyone — you'll disappear from each other completely
• Report profiles, messages, posts or events in one tap. Reports are anonymous

Need help now?

If you or someone else is in immediate danger, call 999. For non-emergency police help, call 101. For sexual health advice, search for your local sexual health clinic on the NHS website.